It’s a Sunday morning in the Golf Shop at Winterfield Golf Club and I am handing out scorecards for the weekly golf competition, when in walks Jim, a club member grumbling about his bad score on the golf course. What’s wrong i asked and he replied that they should destroy the 13th hole. I can never make a par there he says, it always messes up my scorecard as well as a few other holes I could tell you about.
I knew Jim to have a mid to high golf handicap so I asked him exactly what it was he was playing off these days I play off a 17 handicap he said. before we go any further The 13th Hole at Winterfield golf course is a 368yd par 4 with a stroke index of 2. So I asked Jim what do you think your par is? It’s a par 4 Kevin you know it is, he replied. It is for me I said, but what’s your par? He looked at me with a vacant stare so I proceeded to explain to him my meaning.
Your par for that hole is 5 not 4, with your handicap you can get a 5 and still not lose anything in relation to your handicap. So each time you stand on that tee and think about making a par 4 you are making it more difficult for yourself. But if you stood on the thirteenth tee and said to yourself it’s a par 5 you can bet the hole is gonna seem a lot easier to play. I am sure you would be more relaxed and think, that’s not hard I can do that, and that is precisely how you should approach every hole you play.
And therein lies the problem most mid to high handicap golfers have, they are not playing their own game they are trying to play scratch golf. This is where good course management and thinking comes in to play.
What you should do is make out a personal scorecard relative to your handicap. With Jim’s handicap there is only one hole on the course that he is expected to par and that is stroke index 18 the easiest hole on the course. If your golf course has a par of 70 and your handicap is 15 then your par for the course is 85. I hope you can understand this here because it’s an important part of managing your game.
I know it goes against the grain but it will make every golf hole seem easier and let you play with and relax. Instead of getting out the driver on these tougher holes and then messing up because you feel you must try to get a par, take golf clubs you are more confident with. Now you have your new mental approach with regard to par you will be pleased to see how much easier it is to play each individual golf hole. A par 4 on the course where you have a shot means 3 shots to reach the green and 2 putts. Think this way and you will be amazed how many times you make an actual par, which in your case means … BIRDIE ….
I ended by telling Jim to think about your approach to the golf course now! Standing on par 3′s that now become par 4′s .. How much easier is that on the mind? With a nod of thanks and a gleam in his eye Jim wandered off to the bar to join his friends and have a well-earned drink.
This great game of golf is hard enough without putting too much pressure on yourself. Manage your own game better by thinking correctly and your course management will improve along with your enjoyment of the game. Look at each hole on your golf course in a new light. Draw up your own personal scorecard.. NOW !!